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It’s not always easy to tell when a woman wants you to approach her. But there are subtle signs that we will cover in this article so that you can decide in the moment whether to approach.
Men often don’t realize when women are interested. This means they lose out on the opportunity to approach, and the woman may be disappointed and think that he wasn’t interested in her.
Of course, the more of these signs you notice, the better chance there is that she may be interested. Many of these signs on their own can be just a coincidence, or she may just be acting polite. Even if you think you notice many signs that she’s attracted, always be prepared for a “no thank you.”
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One of the most embarrassing things for guys is to approach a woman and get turned down, especially in front of others.
We know that making the first move is always difficult, so we work on it.
Adelance members learn how to tell when a woman is looking for guys to approach her and when she needs a bit of quiet time.
We practice how to make pleasant eye contact. Then, we practice how to read the signs that both men and women send and how to approach a partner who’s actually hoping to meet you.
And finally, we teach men how to take a “no” without getting offended. We learn that getting a no is not a problem, and we practice it until everyone is completely at ease
When you learn what to look out for and with enough practice, it will be easier. However, we give you some tips that will help you to know if someone is interested in you.
9 Signals That Women Use to Show They Are Interested
1. Making Eye Contact
Eye contact is a subtle but strong sign. If she holds eye contact with you, that could be a sign she’s interested.
Let’s say you’re in a social setting and a woman across the room looks at you. If she looks at you and then instantly turns away, it may be because she is shy or doesn’t want to get caught looking at you. If she looks back at you and smiles, that’s an invitation for you to go introduce yourself.
Of course, she could be holding the look longer than normal simply because she’s trying to size you up and figure out who you are. Or her mind may be somewhere else completely and she may not even realize that she’s staring. That’s what makes figuring out if a woman is interested or not difficult. However, if a woman does not hold eye contact, or looks away and does not look back, you can assume she is probably not interested.
They say that the eyes are the window into the soul. You can tell a lot about how a woman feels about you through her eyes. Just remember to be subtle and don’t stare.
2. She Smiles at You
In general, a smile from a woman is a good sign, but it’s not enough to determine if she wants you to approach her. If you were walking past her, it could be just a normal everyday happy smile that she gives to everyone, or it could be that she’s interested.
If she walks past you, however, and finds an excuse to turn around and look at you, that’s a good sign that she’s interested. If she turns around and smiles at you, she’s definitely interested. Approach her right then and there if you’re interested too. Usually, only a confident, out-going type woman would do that. But a shy one may too.
Even the type of smile matters. When a woman smiles with just her mouth and not her eyes, that could be just a cordial smile she gives everyone. But if she smiles with her mouth, eyes and all her facial muscles, that’s a much more genuine smile.
3. She Plays with Her Hair
This may seem a little odd, but when a woman plays with her hair right in front of you, it’s a sign that she’s interested. It’s called preening, and it’s a subconscious or conscious act on her part when she is feeling attraction. It may seem like a small thing, but it is a good sign.
What she is doing is making herself look more desirable. But again, you have to be able to tell the difference between a woman who is doing that in order to get your attention, or one who just has a habit of doing that. This is why it’s best to look for multiple signs.
4. She Fidgets with Her Clothes
If she fidgets with her clothes in front of you, it’s another sign. Similar to preening, she wants to look her best, so she will naturally adjust her clothes. It’s a small thing, but together with other signs, it can indicate she’s interested.
5. She Exhibits Open Body Language
If a woman is in a social setting, she can either have open or closed body language. Let’s say you’re in a club and there is a room where people are dancing. If she is approachable, she will be looking around the room and her body language will be open in the sense that she will be pointed towards the room. If she had her arms crossed and is not paying any attention to anything going on around her, then she’s has closed body language and is more than likely not approachable.
If she is open, meets your eye contact and smiles, then she’s definitely interested.
6. She Mirrors Your Body Language
If you’re sitting across the room from her, your eyes meet, you smile and raise an eyebrow towards her, and she mimics your smile and facial movements, she’s definitely interested. Whenever a woman unconsciously mirrors or copies your body language or facial expressions, that’s a great sign that she’s interested. What it shows is that she notices you, and she’s attracted.
7. She Makes Sure You Notice Her
If a woman likes you in a social setting, she will usually let you know that she’s interested in you by making sure to place herself close enough to you that you will notice her. If you notice her getting closer to you, it could be a sign she’s interested. It could also just be a coincidence, so, make sure that you get more signs from her that she’s interested.
8. She Brushes By You
Another thing that a woman might do in a social setting is to brush by you closer than normal, even if she has enough room to make it past you. It’s her way of getting your attention and doing what she can to make it clear that she’s interested.
Again, it’s best if you can get a few definite signs of interest before you approach her.
9. She Sits Up Straight and Squares Herself
Another sign is when a woman suddenly adjusts her posture. If she sits up nice and tall and squares off her shoulders, it’s a sign that she’s wanting to present herself in the best possible light. We all know intuitively that great posture shows that a person is self-confident and poised. It shows that she’s a good catch.