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What Do Women Want in a Man?

There is so much misguided and misleading information in our world about what women want in a man. Movies will tell the story of boy meets girl, boy sacrifices everything to be with girl, girl falls madly in love with boy, and they live happily ever after… 

That may work in the mind of a script writer, but in real life, it doesn’t at all.

And if you were to ask 10 women what they want in a man, for the most part, you’ll get 10 different answers. What’s a guy to do? What do women really want anyway?

If you are reading this, you are probably either new to the dating scene, or you’ve been in relationships that haven’t worked. Perhaps you’re wondering what you did wrong and what to do next time.

We might feel like we need a little help when it comes to the subject matter of women. That’s because society and popular culture tells us that women are hard to understand. In truth, what women want is not that cryptic. We’ll help you break it down.

You Can Learn to be Attractive

At Adelance’s social dance evenings, we help you build confidence, lead and feel at ease amongst beautiful women. Imagine having the chance to dance with many different beautiful women. Though it may seem intimidating now, after just a few hours of social dance, you’ll get used to standing up straight and proud, and you’ll feel at ease with approaching women.

In no time, you’ll see that they enjoy being in your company because of your new-found confidence and attractiveness.

Come to a dance evening and discover the new you.

The 3 Crucial Things That Women Want in a Man

1. Women Want a Self-Confident Man

Confidence is attractive. Even when a guy or girl makes a mistake but remains confident, they are viewed as having strength of character.  So how can you build it?

One way of improving your confidence is through your posture. A very small change in posture from slouched to straight makes a huge difference. If you smile and have good posture, it shows strength, confidence, and positivity. A slouched posture, on the other hand, signifies depression and weakness. 

You can also improve your confidence through your thoughts. Most of our thoughts are not positive. We say things like, “I’m not good enough.” Many of us have had these thoughts since childhood. No wonder why so many of us struggle with self-confidence. 

The truth is that you are what you believe. As Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can, or whether you think you can’t, you’re right!” He understood the power of thought – that if you focus on what you want and who you want to be, you will become it. 

Start monitoring those negative thoughts that you have throughout the day. And when you catch yourself saying one of them, challenge it. Say, “What evidence is there that this is true?” You may find that some event can trigger a negative thought. Trace the event back to when it first happened, challenge it, and replace it with a positive thought.

Start saying positive affirmations to yourself on a regular basis. Here are some examples:

  • I am worthy.
  • I am good enough. 
  • I am smart enough.
  • I can do anything I set my mind to. 
  • I am attractive. 
  • I am fit. 
  • I am healthy. 
  • I am strong.
  • I feel at ease with women. 
  • I am self-confident. 

Your thoughts help to create your reality. Take control of your thoughts through your conscious mind.

2. Women Want an Ambitious Man

Lots of men are under the impression that all women want are rich guys – the more money you have, the better. But ambition does not mean money. Being successful is a sign of a guy who is already self-confident, a leader, and someone who can be a great provider. 

Since this is true, does it mean that if you’re not rich and successful yet, you’re out of luck with women? No.

If you are ambitious, have a vision and stick to it, and if you are passionate about becoming successful, that’s what matters. The more that you believe in yourself, then the more a woman is likely to believe in you too.

Being ambitious doesn’t only apply to work, either. Pursuing your interests outside of work and trying new things with ambition and passion helps you become a more well-rounded and interesting person. This makes you more attractive.

3. Women Want a Man Who Works on Being His Best Self

Of course women also look for qualities such as trustworthiness and dependability and a great sense of humor. Working on cultivating these qualities will not only make you more attractive to women, but they will make you more successful in life and a better person to be around.

The ironic thing about this is that by focusing more on developing self-confidence, ambition, and positive personality traits, you don’t have to worry about what women want. As you improve your life and work on gaining these qualities for your own self-improvement, the right women will be naturally drawn to you.

In other words, focus on yourself, build the life of your dreams, and be happy with or without her, and the right woman will come along.

Some guys know how to be attractive intuitively. Others simply need a little help. The good news is that now, you can learn, practice and become an attractive guy, easily.  

Words from an article don’t teach – only experience does. That’s why we created Adelance’s social dance evenings. It’s the perfect answer to the long-time problem of gaining confidence and attractiveness in the eyes of women.